Same as it ever was
No - we do not have to get along with people who are horrible
Every once and a while I log into Facebook. I have been happily trending away from that scorched hellscape of people who have done their own research, are just sayin’ and lay out a five point treatise on exactly how “happy holidays” is an affront to scores of persecuted christians in the USA.
But today it was worth logging in. I posted this last year. Today it is truer than ever.
You do not have to forgive everyone to be happy or fulfilled in your life
Some people are absolutely deserving of your scorn - silent or loud enough to wake the dead.
COVID19 deniers in your life - even your family - have made a moral decision that no one around them matters. Vaccines - never! They are selfish AF. Save yourself the misery of deciding whether or not to cut bait - I give you permission to never speak to them again.
For years now dusty and dry old bridges have been yearning for you to finally set them ablaze; put them out of their misery.