My favorite farmer - or - why I care about Iowa

NOTE! I wrote this in the first months after my dad died. I reread it now and wonder how I did it?

Grief is worse than I thought. It is probably worse than you thought too if you are going through it right now.

Don’t let anyone tell you it isn’t.

What do I mean by this (Certainly no one would be enough of an asshole to tell you your gutting sadness an…